My therapist has offered to share her daycare provider with me. If I were to - in the end - choose to go with this caregiver for our daughter, it will mean my therapist can no longer see me for counseling because of the conflict presented by running into me daily at morning drop-off and afternoon pick-up. But she adores her caregiver and both her kids have been with this woman for years and she trusts her implicitly. She knows how important finding good daycare is, and apparently she doesn't think I need the therapy that badly. Which, to be honest, at this point in my life I don't - it's a nice support, but not necessary. She sees my desperation for finding good care for our baby, and I think she believes the benefits of having that situation resolved will outweigh the negatives of me being booted from her client list. She told me to think about. I'm planning to call her tomorrow to obtain this baby whisperer's digits.
I thought this weekend was going to be bad, and turns out I was right on the money.
Friday night Hubs and I both crashed from having not had a single weeknight that wasn't full to the brim until about 9-10pm. It was nonstop all week, with not a moment of down time. Then Saturday we'd agreed to watch my friend C's kids overnight while they went to a bed and breakfast in town. They desperately needed the break, but sadly so did we. It was a long day and night. We woke up Sunday to a race against the clock to get us both ready for church, home to let the dog out, and keep the kids fed and entertained until C and B returned.
The end result? 5 minutes late to church (not bad at all given the circumstances), several kid meltdowns, several adult anxiety attacks, and a $145 speeding ticket.
Yup, right on the money with the total suckage that this weekend turned out to be.
Sunday we were at various events and services all day and then finally made it home by about 5pm. We took Hero for a walk and then spent the rest of the night in our pjs watching 24. This morning, up and at 'em with an early OB appointment, a bunch of errands, a dog walk, and now I'm headed to the office.
This week's another hellish one. I honestly don't know how long we can keep up this pace. And this is without a baby. I definitely am not one of those people who thrive on being busy all the time, going from one thing to the next without vacant hours in between. How we find ourselves here I don't know, but even more depressing is that I don't see a way out. Must. De-clutter. Life.
Fast.
I think the hardest part about having a baby is that not everything can be figured out at once. There's a lot of undecides and wait-and-sees. For example, my maternity leave. Not sure how much time I'm going to take yet. And HR won't meet with me to go over everything and get the process started for another month.
One thing we do know now is that Hubs will take his paternity leave in a 4 week chunk immediately after the baby is born, so we'll be home together as a family for 4 weeks - YAY! I know we'll be sleep deprived and adjusting to having a baby in the house, etc. but it sounds like bliss to me - 4 whole weeks together!!!
Another unknown is the daycare situation. Centers are perfectly willing to sign you up today, but in-home providers are unsure of what their openings will be come late summer/early fall. They tell me it's early to start looking. EARLY?!?! As a planner, I feel months behind on everything!
I'm itching to get the nursery done I think because of all these other unknowns. I want a place that's baby-ready, since I'm not feeling baby-ready right now, I just need to stay in the moment, and know it will all get figured out. Eventually.
